I guess this was aimed at me. I'm not missing out on anything, I have a very wide range of sexual interests including straight romantic sex. In this video it is highly likely that the woman is into spanking given her red bottom, and the implements on the bed. You may not realise it but lots of people get extremely aroused by pain (in fact crave it), and it can add a powerful extra dimension to sex. However each to his/her own.
I could think of 1000 things I would do to a woman like that before hitting her would enter my head, then I would come to my senses and go back and do the fun stuff again. You should get out of that 1 dimensional world of violent sex, your missing out on so much.
Rolls eyes to the top of his head.